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Making the Most From the Dating Game: Tips for the Modern Man – Attract the Woman You Want

Are you ready to attract the woman you really want? The next time you meet a woman you are attracted to, will you be ready? Perhaps you have already met her, but have not had the confidence to approach her for a date.

Dating for the modern man of today is not a simple as it used to be in generations past. Then, you met the girl next door, went “steady”, got married and lived happily ever after (mostly).

Today, both women and men stay in the dating game for a much longer period with a lot more partners, and often have success in other areas of their lives such as careers and education. Men especially, find it increasingly harder to approach the confident and successful modern woman.

Let’s face it – every great relationship begins with the first approach, with a single date. Whether you simply want to enjoy the dating game, or hope to meet “Miss Right” to spend the rest of your life with, it all begins with that first contact, first word, first impression that leads to a first date. And guys, as you know, that’s where a lot of men lose confidence and stumble.

Most men like to think that they are perfectly capable of approaching a woman, but in reality, many of us know that there’s room for improvement. I mean, it’s only a first contact, a few words…simple, right? Unfortunately, the following scenario is more than comfortably familiar to a lot of men.

Scenario:

Imagine that you’re in a busy public place, perhaps a bar, a party, business function, and notice a very attractive woman that you would love to approach and meet.

How embarrassing! How disappointing! You’ve let another one get away again!

Understanding what a woman is looking for in a man is one of the biggest “secret non-secrets” to attracting a woman. It’s so obvious that once men know what a woman is looking for in a man, they will be able to attract any woman they want. However, for many men, the concept of how to attract a woman is simply huge mystery. Men and women differ in so many ways that it’s difficult for many of us to really grasp how to get inside the mind of the opposite sex.

Many men are embarrassed to talk about their lack of success with women, especially with other men. It’s not exactly the most macho thing in the world to do. However, like anything worthwhile in life, if you want enjoyment and success from it, you must be prepared to put aside your discomfort, learn and practice, practice, practice.

To become really comfortable and good at doing anything, you must do it as often as you can to become really good at it.

Men and women often have different perceptions of love, romance and attraction. Men focus of words and technique while women focus on the setting and atmosphere leading up to and during the romance. The trick for men is to use technique to create the right atomosphere and setting for the woman to be receptive to your approach.

A lot of men think that the art of attracting a woman is to be tricky and to use sweet talk. However, rest assured, quality women see right through it and your chances will be as good as not approaching her at all!

The true secret to attracting a woman isn’t a mere step-by-step checklist. It’s more a mindset towards completely seducing a woman, mind, body and soul. It may be hard for some men to believe, but what really attracts a woman is much simpler than you may have ever imagined.

Effective communication and patience is key to attracting a woman. Women enjoy sex as much as men, but a woman wants to know that you are not simply interested in her for sexual gratification. The best way to prove them wrong is be patient, learn about her and take your time.

It’s all about romance and making a woman feel special. No, not romance in the hearts and flowers kind of way, but in making a woman feel comfortable with you, but leaving just a little bit of mystery so she remains attracted and interested in you.

Dating for the modern man is about how to treat a woman right. Yes, it’s playing the “dating game”, but what a fun and fulfilling game it can be for both you and the woman you want when it’s played well.

Are you ready to improve your success with women beyond anything you ever thought possible?

For great tips on how to increase your success with women, go to The Modern Man.

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this guy from an online dating site talked to me on the phone and said point blank he was looking for a wife and he wanted sex and to get ready if he liked me because it would require lotsof sex=morning, noon andnight and he was quote unquote a horny guy..
Iwas taken aback( iam new to the dating scene again after losing my husband to cancer)
He wanted to meet today for coffe and I emailed him and told him “based on our conversation I do nothtink we woul be interested in each other but i wished him good luck”
Since I anew on the dating scene again and I know it is 2009 is it suppose to be acceptable for guys to say this or was he rude?
He also told me 99.9% girls are flakes so I am sure since I emailed him and told him I would not meet him tha the thinks I am a flake too.

Wow. I wonder why women keep standing him up??!

What a complete loony!

I was VERY wary when I tried internet dating (in my 40s) but a friend told me that she had done it and she estimated that people were split 50-50 between those wanting a relationship and those just out for sex. Something tells me that guy might have been in the latter group!

I was VERY VERY picky both in my own profile and in those men I would bother contacting or responding to. Over about three months I met only six men. Three were nice but not for me. One was cute and I saw him twice and then he never contacted me again. One was very pleasant but it fizzled out after four dates. The sixth one was JUST RIGHT! We had four dates and both rushed to cancel our memberships! We are still together 18 months later and no one can believe I met him online – he is just the sweetest, funniest, sexiest man!

Anyway, my advice to you is be far more careful. Don’t be afraid to set yourself very high standards and sound quite demanding in your profile. I actually stated in mine that I take a long time to fall in love and would not be leaping into bed soon! You will get a couple of guys who obviously respond to ANY ad, but otherwise I think you’ll find a much better quality of man much more quickly.

Good luck!

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